Kintsugi Woman Playlist
- Kalina Bains

- Jan 31, 2022
- 3 min read
Sisters Are Doin’ It for Themselves
A Kintsugi Woman Reflection on Anthem, Agency & Ancestral Glow
There’s a moment when the beat drops, and you feel it—not just in your ears, but in your bones. “Sisters Are Doin’ It for Themselves” isn’t just a song. It’s a ceremonial shout, a legacy chant, a mirror held high to every woman who’s ever stitched her own wings from broken threads.
Released in 1985 by Eurythmics and Aretha Franklin, this anthem was never meant to be background noise. It was, and still is a declaration that women are not waiting for permission, rescue, or validation. We are writing our own scripts, leading our own movements, and shining in our own way.
Kintsugi Woman Hears the Cracks
As a Kintsugi Woman, I hear the gold in the lyrics.
This is a song to celebrate, the conscious liberation of the female state.
It’s not just about independence. It’s about interdependence, the kind that honours grandmothers, sistars, and girlfriends who held the line when the world tried to erase them. It’s about ritualizing resistance, turning every act of survival into a ceremony of strength.
We don’t just “do it for ourselves. ”We do it for the ones who couldn’t. We do it for the ones who whispered, “Shine anyway.”
Sisters, Still Rising in a world that still tries to dim our light, "Sisters Are Doin’ It for Themselves" is a torch song. It reminds us that shining is not vanity, it’s an ancestral duty. That boldness is not rebellion, it’s ritual. That every woman who steps into her power is repairing the lineage with gold.
So play it loud. Sing it proud. And let the cracks gleam.
She Shines. So others remember they can too.
She Shines: Ritual Playlist for Kintsugi Woman
30 Songs of Boldness, Bravery & Strength
🎵 Song | 📅 Year | 🔗 YouTube Link | 💬 Kintsugi Woman Affirmation |
Ain’t No Mountain High Enough – Diana Ross | 1970 | She rises, no matter the climb. | |
Beautiful – Christina Aguilera | 2002 | She is radiant in every scar. | |
Born This Way – Lady Gaga | 2011 | She was born to shine, not shrink. | |
Brave – Sara Bareilles | 2013 | She speaks truth, even when trembling. | |
Confident – Demi Lovato | 2015 | She owns her power, unapologetically. | |
CROWN – CHIKA | 2020 | She wears her story like a crown. | |
Diva – Beyoncé | 2008 | She is the female version of a hustla. | |
Express Yourself – Madonna | 1989 | She asks for what she deserves. | |
Fight Song – Rachel Platten | 2015 | She turns whispers into war cries. | |
Freedom – Beyoncé ft. Kendrick Lamar | 2016 | She breaks every chain with grace. |
🎵 Song | 📅 Year | 🔗 YouTube Link | 💬 Kintsugi Woman Affirmation |
Girl on Fire – Alicia Keys | 2012 | She burns with brilliance, not apology. | |
God Is a Woman – Ariana Grande | 2018 | She is divine, embodied and whole. | |
I Am Woman – Emmy Meli | 2021 | She is fearless, divine, and rising. | |
I Will Survive – Gloria Gaynor | 1978 | She survives, shines, and sings through it. | |
Independent Women Part I – Destiny’s Child | 2000 | She builds her own altar, her own empire. | |
Just a Girl – No Doubt | 1995 | She reclaims every label with fire. | |
Like a Girl – Lizzo | 2019 | She does it all—like a girl, like a goddess. | |
Man! I Feel Like a Woman! – Shania Twain | 1997 | She celebrates her shine with sass and soul. | |
No More Drama – Mary J. Blige | 2001 | She releases what no longer serves her. | |
Phenomenal Woman – Olivia Newton-John (inspired by Maya Angelou) | 2005 | She is phenomenal—because she is. |
🎵 Song | 📅 Year | 🔗 YouTube Link | 💬 Kintsugi Woman Affirmation |
Q.U.E.E.N. – Janelle Monáe ft. Erykah Badu | 2013 | She questions, queers, and crowns herself. | |
Respect – Aretha Franklin | 1967 | She demands dignity, and gets it. | |
Rise Up – Andra Day | 2015 | She rises, again and again. | |
Roar – Katy Perry | 2013 | She roars from the cracks. | |
Run the World (Girls) – Beyoncé | 2011 | She leads with rhythm and fire. | |
Scars to Your Beautiful – Alessia Cara | 2015 | She shines through every scar. | |
Sisters Are Doin’ It for Themselves – Eurythmics & Aretha Franklin | 1985 | She builds her own altar, her own empire. | |
Stronger (What Doesn’t Kill You) – Kelly Clarkson | 2011 | She turns pain into power. | |
Unstoppable – Sia | 2016 | She is a force of light and legacy. | |
Woman – Kesha ft. The Dap-Kings Horns | 2017 | She dances in her own divine. |





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